A smiling Black woman with glasses beside an open journal, a mug, and colorful markers

55. A little whimsy. My own company.

There is always another little side
quest waiting.

I'm Danielle. At 55, with ADHD and anxiety along for the ride, I'm making life feel more like my own. Cozy games, creative detours, home projects, and solo days out—some take more effort than others. There's still room for a little play.

A little time for you

Find your next side quest

These are ideas from my solo life, not a to-do list. A small start suits some days; a wander suits others. Pick whatever catches your curiosity.

2 little quests · Make Something

A Black woman in her early 40s knitting on a cozy chair

Make Something

A 20-minute knitting break

A few rows, a dropped stitch, perhaps a restart. A small bit of making counts as the activity, not an obligation to finish.

20 minutesA comfortable seatLow energy
Try this quest
  1. Bring out a yarn project and tools you already have.
  2. Choose one small section or a few rows.
  3. Spend twenty minutes with it, then leave your place marked for next time. No yarn project? Try a little paper craft instead.
A brown woman drawing in a journal with markers

Make Something

Draw something tiny

A mug, a leaf, a wonky little house. Let it be a drawing, not a masterpiece.

10 minutesAt your tableLow energy
Try this quest
  1. Find a scrap of paper and a marker or pen you own.
  2. Choose one ordinary object and draw it small.
  3. Add a colour or a playful detail. Keep the imperfect bits.

The person behind the quests

Hi, I'm Danielle.

A few plans. A few detours.

I'm 55, I live alone in the DC area, and I live with ADHD and anxiety. They help shape how I approach a home project, a creative afternoon, or getting out the door. I get around by Metro, trains, and on foot, with my Kindle often coming along.

Here you'll find games, knitting, museum visits, cafés, and the occasional plan that changes halfway through. I like doing things on my own—not everything needs to become a group project. You don't have to live like me to join in.

A little more about me

A few familiar companions

Things that make my quests better

Not a shopping list or a recipe for sorting out my life. Just things I already own that have a place in my day.

My Kindle

For the couch, a café, or a train ride. Sometimes I get through a chapter; sometimes I reread the same page.

Nintendo Switch Lite

For a familiar game after a busy day, or a little play between train stops. No productive reason required.

A small yarn project

For a few rows when I feel like making something. The larger project can wait its turn.

A bag for a day out

For keeping my book and everyday essentials together when I'm out on foot or taking transit.

For brands with a place in everyday solo life

Product stories from my point of view: 55, ADHD, anxiety, and everyday life on my own. Games, creative tools, home comforts, and things that come along for the day.

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